Here to Please You

Women have needs, as does everybody. If they don’t want to deal with it themselves, they’ll go to different lengths to find someone to make them feel better. In many cases, they go to men. If a man doesn’t want them, they put themselves out there in a whole new way. Changing their style, their attitude, and their sexuality (looking like a lesbian by making out with girls) seems to be a must to get with a guy. It’s like with this girl I know, she was desperate for some affection. After we had a talk about guys and her trying to find one, everything about her changed. She started to dress up wherever we went, which isn’t always a bad thing but it was a bit much, even if it was to go watch a stupid game at someone’s house. You could tell she was trying, flirting with any guy she thought was cute. It was ridiculous. The sad thing is, she didn’t even do anything with these guys and people started talking about her saying she was a slut, getting with a bunch of different guys. Yet some of the guys saying this do the same thing. It’s horrible how women have to live up to a certain standard to please a guy, when in fact that doesn’t always happen! It can turn guys away. In our readings it talked about how confusing sexuality can be, to be sexy, but still a virgin!? Really? I’m so sure! Women make themselves look like sex toys for men. The Victoria Secret commercials show these skinny women, with curves being all sexy. Girls see this and think, “Oh I need to be like that!” And one of the things I hate is seeing these girls who kind of try to be sexy on occasion, and once Halloween hits, every girl lets out their “slutty” side. Why? To be put on display for every guy to judge her, and if she’s lucky a guy that thinks she’s sexy and wants some ass will come up to her and take full advantage.