Sunday, February 27, 2011

sex is for sluts!

Sex is for sluts!

The two readings on sexuality for young women is very interesting to me because I agree with it so much! As a young girl, the whole idea of being called a slut for having sex or being a prude for being a virgin was an issue. Especially during high school because everyone knew everything that went on in the party scene. Girls are so confused these days because of the images that men strive to obtain from average girls. Porn is not real life! In FFF, when she discusses how porn is fake and acted, she is telling the truth people. I used to hate when I walked into my friends’ apartment and a bunch of porn posters were hung on the walls. It was very awkward because not only do I not look like them but also they give this vulgar image of what girls should be to get a guy. In the blackboard article, the girls state their confusion with sex because either your too loose or you’re a prude for being a virgin. Which is it boys? Girls struggle so much with being called sluts and it is really a degrading word. My brother is only 13 years old and already makes extremely sexual comments about girls at his school. For all I know he is having sex already. He talks about girls like they are dogs and it disgusts me. Men need to stop having such high standards for women and maybe they would actually be satisfied sometimes. Girls themselves play a huge role in why we are looked at in such vulgar ways. Girls Gone Wild, you disgust me! Even in my most drunken stupor I could never bring myself to flash someone or do sexual things to men. I guess I just have some self respect!

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